Feb 28th-March 5th 2011

Slow week for us. Not much going on. The boys are into singing right now. Both are gearing up for their spring plays for school. I am still not sure what Karson's class is exactly working on, but I know about Jacksons. His play is on April 7th. Jackson knows his song "Down by the Bay" by heart. Even Darrel and I are singing the song. Jackson will be playing the baby bear in the play. I am sure, he will do great, he loves attention. The boys are also in the music maker class with church. And they love it. We have a CD we listen to constantly. And they know most of the words by heart. They love going to church on Sunday nights. I am so happy we are part of a church that has so much to offer for the boys. We were able to celebrate Ally's 4th birthday with her at Extreme play. The boys had a great time. Jackson and I had our weekly date night watching Survivor. He loves that show! While Jackson and I watch the show, Karson gets to play on my computer playing Bookflix. Still overwhelmed, that my 5 year old, can work my computer.........

Feb 21st-27th 2011

This was the week for relaxing after celebrating the boys birthday for 5 days straight! I now say I have two 5 year old! Where did my babies go. I still can't believe they are little men now. Both of them mature overnight. The boys imaginations are growing like weeds. It is amazing at our conversations. Jackson went to use the bathroom and came back with a funny story.

Jackson: Mommy , every time you flush the toilet, it goes to the ocean.
Me: really?
Jackson: Yes Mommy!
Me: Who told you this?
Jackson: That is what my friend Nemo said. So my pee goes to the ocean
Then with a giggle he walks away.

This Tuesday I was in Karson's class. While Jackson had a special guest in his class. Later that day after I picked the boys up, I learned very quickly who the special guest was. I was informed that I drive to fast, I do not use my blinkers correctly. Even when I turned right on red, Jackson about flipped. Yes, you may have guessed it, Jackson's guest was a police officer.

We received a little note from Karson's teacher this week. It said that "Karson is now talking up a storm!" Our little shy boy, is now coming out of his shell.

The boys had their first t-ball practice for the spring. It is going to be a great year. Seems like all the parents will get along fine. Hopefully no more craziness like last fall. The boys have a terrific coach, and they were thrilled to have him back again this year. The improvement the boys made in the last year, rocks!!!

Feb 14th-20th

Ticket Blaster!!
Chuckie!!!

Karson's cake

Jackson's Cake

Sandi and the boys

Karson at Chili's

Jackson passing out after his Ice Creame

Jackson digging into his desert

Family photo

Maw Maw Bonnie

big pawpaw and big mawmaw

birthday cake for school

opening presents at 5:00 am

Happy Val-en-tines day!!! I got CAN-DY!!! These were the words Karson was screaming at me, when he got into the car on Valentines day. That child had more candy then he did on Halloween. What a busy week we had. This week was full of Birthday celebrations! You are 5 years old!!! Can't believe it! My heart is a lil sadden but I am just proud of the lil men you are becoming. On Tuesday 15th I had 3 teacher conferences. And they all went very well. Mrs. Lisa(Karson's speech therapist) believes Karson will no longer need speech past this year. So we are very excited with the improvement he is making. Mrs. Lisa is a great speech teacher, and Karson just adores her. I had my first conference was with Mrs. Tuttle. I am so happy with Mrs. Tuttle and Karson is attached to her. Even though he doesn't speak much to her, but talks highly of her when he gets home. Karson is doing above his level. The only downside is the talking matter. But as long as he is learning, I am happy. Karson loves the computer! It is so amazing what he knows what to do. I have lost pretty much control of my laptop when he gets home in the afternoon. He loves to play Leapster and Bookflix on the computer. My next Conference was with Ms. Lindsey. Amazing, how the different teachers were a great match for each child. Jackson is doing a great job also. Really advance in patterns. Jackson loves anything that has to do with patterns, mazes and puzzles. Also I found out he talks alot about the show "Wipeout" Everything he draws is about Wipeout!! Jackson has alot of friends, and he gets along with everyone. On Thursday was the "5th" birthday!! What a busy but fun day! The boys had separate parties at school. We got them the number 5 cupcake cake with hot wheels theme on it. The bad part about the icing was it stain very easily. Poor children had blue icing all over them. We got to eat lunch with each boy. And then we past cake and goody bags. And we ended the day with a family birthday celebration at Chili's (well with most of the family. Some decided not to come or even call the boys on their birthday. But that is okay. We know who are important, and sometimes those ppl needs to be cut out of our lives. We will still pray for them, but my kids can no longer be around that type of person. And neither can I. Hard to trust people, even if it so-call family) My mom and dad, grandma and papa came. They had a blast and got to open more presents. Chili's waitresses got to sing to the boys, and Karson was so embarrassed. Jackson was a flirt like always! Before we even got out of Monroe, the boys were out. On Friday, Sandi(Darrel's mom) came down, and the boys got more presents. Saturday morning was a busy morning, but gorgeous weather made it awesome! We went to t-ball practice(well, I thought they had t-ball practice but I was wrong, it doesn't start to next week) and then we went to downtown Waxhaw. The boys played at the park, rode bikes and then we went to have ice cream. Sandi gave the boys each $10.00, so we took them to Target to let them pick out their own toy. Jackson had no problem picking out what he wanted. Karson on the other hand was very picky. And the only thing he wanted was a "Jack-in-the-box. But that was out of the price range. So he finally decided on a toy also. Then off to Chili's again for another birthday celebration. (Have I mention, the boys love Chili's) And they got free ice cream again!!! Finally Sunday the 20th has came. And we went to Chuck E Cheese for their official birthday party. So many friends came to celebrate. The boys had a blast. 4 hours at this place was a very long time. It was crowded, but it was by far the best place to have a birthday party at. Our hostess was wonderful, and we even got to keep coins for the kids that didn't show up. I would recommend birthday parties at Chuck E Cheese!!!! The boys got more money. And as soon we got into the car, Karson had to go to Target and get his Jack in the box. And we did! Karson has his favorite toy!! Very busy week, but way worth it! Happy 5th birthday to my babies!!!

5 years old!

Happy Birthday too my sweet angels! I can't believe you are already 5, time has flew by. Sitting here, typing this post, makes me think before we even had you. We thought we would never have any kids, month after month went by. And nothing, we were told some devastating news, about us getting pregnant. We decided one more time, one more month. And that will be it. It was emotional heartbreaking. And then finally, we were pregnant! We were so excited, very scare also. We went for an internal ultrasound at the end of July 2005 at 9 weeks, and found out we were expecting twins. We were shocked! Of course we knew, with infertility treatments, your risk for conceiving multiples were higher. But we were just happy to be pregnant, and then to find out we were double blessed. I have to admit we were scare too, due to medical issues, I was scare carrying twins, you hear horrid stories. But I had a great pregnancy. I went 38 weeks with twins! We found out at 20 weeks we were having boys! We already had names picked out, so that was easy. At the end I started having problems with high blood pressure, so that is when they decided to deliver you on Feb.17th one week earlier than planned. Because both of you were breech, I had to have a C-section. (I wanted a c-section) So at 5:16 pm Karson James Neeley was born weighing in at 6lbs and 14 oz and 19 1/2 inches long. Jackson Darrel Neeley was born at 5:17 pm weighing in at 4 lbs 13 oz and 17 1/2 inches long. Perfect, beautiful and blessed little boys. We all spent 3 days in the hospital and we all went home together! First ride home was very nerve racking. We were so scare of driving, we finally made it home. Both of you were very wet, and Jackson's little finger was stuck in the car seat buckle. So we finally got everything settle in. And we were finally at home with our babies! It was so amazing to see you guys sleep in your cribs. Our prayers were answer, we finally had a baby x2!!!! I was so blessed that God chose me to be your mom. He knew what I needed, and that was too have you guys in my life. You both are so special, you have the best little hearts, and love you show others are remarkable. Any day I am not feeling well, you make me smile. I take care of you, but really you guys take care of me and make my days brighter.

Feb 7th-13th

JIM AND THE BOYS

JACKSON BEING A SORE LOSER
LOVE THIS GAME!

KARSON AND HIS NEW BIRTHDAY PRESENT

JACKSON AND HIS NEW BIRTHDAY PRESENT

Oh No!! We got hit with the Crud!!

The stomach bug finally made it to our house. Started off with Karson, then to Darrel. I was laughing at Darrel, and then I got it 5 hrs later. (note to self. no more laughing at Darrel getting sick) Finally Jackson got it. The house is Lysol, and the bug has left the house. I pray it never returns!

We went to Union Academy admission information session. We are hoping the boys get into this Charter School. It is by lottery, so we will find out more in March, rather or not they were accepted.

Jim(Darrel's Dad) came down for the weekend, to spend with the boys for their birthdays. They were excited to see Jim. Seem like everyone had fun, and of course the boys were spoiled with presents!!!

Feb 1st-6th 2011

I am going to try something new. At least updating per week with details of our lives. Darrel is mainly working, being a father and husband and also being a great bowler! His bowling average has greatly improved this season to an average of 217. My ladies bible study started back this week also. And "WOW" what a great study we are doing. "Having a Mary Spirit" by Joanna Weaver. This week we had a major testing done for Jackson at University of North Carolina (aka Tar heel Town per Jackson) Jackson has been showing signs of JRA. Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis. This appt has been set up for 6 long months. And finally it happen. Dr. Stein did a complete medical work up and evaluation. He could not find any physically wrong with Jackson, but he perform major lab work up. Praise the lord that the Dr. thinks Jackson is okay. We spent 3 nights in Raleigh with Darrel's mom. On Friday, Darrel and Sandi, took the boys to the UNC Basketball museum. I heard they had a great time. Per Darrel it is a must to go back, and since it is free. I am sure we will.

I also came to love a GPS system. Yes I know, I am way behind on the GPS thing. But I am def. getting one very soon. Also one of my Best Friends celebrated her 30th birthday this week. So Happy Birthday Barbara!!!

Some funny sayings:

Jackson was upset one night. I went to check on him. He threw his teddy bear at me and said " I don't want this thing, I want someone real to sleep with!!!

Karson "Mommy, Please take my leapsters out of the room." "Why Karson?" "Mommy, I am scare the frog is going to leap on my head during sleeping"

"Karson, why do you always have to sleep with mommy and not daddy?" "Because, Mommy is fluffy!" Thank you my love!!!

Jan 2011

January went bye so fast! Not sure where to start. Jackson went back to the eye doctor. His left eye is slowly gaining back eye strength. We are still doing the atropine eye drops. It is so hard to patch a 4 year old. Karson went back to the neurologist, and she confirmed what we had suspected for the past 3 years. My sweet Karson, so gentle, and shy. He is my snuggle bear. But we found out he has Aspergars. Which is type of Autism. But we are one of the lucky ones, where Karson may grow out of this with the right type of therapy and social groups. While some may not see anything wrong with Karson. I, as his mother, knows something isn't right. But I know he will grow into a beautiful christian man. Just remember if you see a kid with a temper tantrum, it doesn't mean that kid is a wild child, or not discipline. That child may have a medical problem. We are going on 2 years seizure free. We couldn't be more thrill with this. Both boys are still excelling in school. Best decision we ever made with the boys was putting them into pre-school. Jackson is learning syllables, and how to read. Karson is learning the pledge of allegiance. Karson knows how to operate a computer like an adult. Jackson is hooked on the speed channel. The child wakes up and turns off my alarm clock. He gets dress and turns on the speed channel. Yes, I know he is Darrel's son. We are learning, that even though we are not speaking to the boys directly, they are still listening to our conversations.

Jackson informed last week, that a lil girl in his class said he was mean. Jackson was very upset over this. Per Jackson "I am not mean at school, mommy!! I am only mean at home." Thank You Jackson!! I am glad you are nice at school. The boys join the music makers at church and they are both enjoying it very much. They are both doing great in cubbies and remembering their bible verses every week. Once a week we have game night. I am learning that all three of my boys are very competitive. Trying to teach them that it is okay to lose, and winning doesn't include a win dance every time(Karson James) The boys also started Skating this month. Maw Maw and Paw Paw Jackson took the boys twice skating, and they are having a blast learning how to do it. Hopefully one day, I may be able to join them. I am so proud of what my babies have become, still can't believe in a couple weeks they will be 5. I am sure the next post will be very sappy!!